Possibility Thinking

A couple of years ago I celebrated a big birthday (no, I am not disclosing). One event included a surprise visit to a shooting range (yes, guns). So we pull into this obscure parking lot and my friend said, "for your birthday we are going to cross off an item on your bucket list." What? First of all I don't shoot guns. And second of all, I don't have a bucket list - to which she replied "you do now." So we went in, picked out our paper target and shot. It was little scary, yet kind of fun, mainly because I won...but doubt I'll do that again.

However, that's not the point. Shooting. Or winning for that matter. The point is I realized I didn't have a bucket list and wondered what might be wrong with me?! While I don't have a bucket list, I do have possibility list. And there is a difference.